Anytime that, without being... «Learning All The Time»
anna_cornelia28 июля 2015Anytime that, without being invited, being asked, we try to teach somebody else something, anytime we do that, we convey to that person, whether we know it or not, a double message.
The first part of the message is: I am teaching you something important, but you are not smart enough to see how important it is. Unless i teach it to you, you'd probably never bother to find it out.
The second message that uninvited teaching conveys to the person is: what I am teaching you is so difficult that, if I didn't teach it to you, you couldn't learn it.
The problem is that we human being like teaching. We are a teaching animal, as well as a learning animal. We have to restrain that impulse, that habit, that need to explain things to everybody... unless we are asked.
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