5 Every man needs to read this book to be good with women.

It was funny to read some negative reviews on this book, mostly written by women.

This book is not outdated in any way. In my opinion, this book topic and advice is a timeless classic and a must-read for any adult stepping into serious relationships or getting married.

I understand the source of negative reviews. The reason is so-called wokeness, genders and pronouns absurd, and a desire to feel unique. Well, there is scientific research that shows that our two biological genders psychology and brain function, male and female, have differences. Therefore, there is also a common way males are similar to other males, and females are similar to other females.

But males and females are pretty different in the way they think, perceive the world, and operate in their daily lives.

This is what this book is about, how these differences could be understood. How instead of leading to disagreement they could lead to a harmony in male-female relationships.

I think, though, this book is the most useful for Men to read. It is a very common situation, that you can also verify by reading other psychology books, that Men are often disconnected from their emotions. Men might not know how to express their emotions in a healthy way, or how to express them at all, how to understand themselves in general, and have low Emotional Intelligence skills, while it is common to think, that Men do not need it, that is for Women.

And how Men are supposed to understand and live peacefully with Women in marriage while trying to communicate with their spouse by using what Men are good with - facts and logic?

That is never a good idea, it leads to arguments, negativity, and finally to a divorce if the pattern repeats again and again over time.

Men need to learn, that Women do operate on Emotions more than on facts and logic, and learn how to communicate with their second half adequately.

EQ is a skill, that can be and must be learned by Men, not a given.

There is also a lot of advice for Women in this book on how to handle their husbands properly, given the gender differences in behavior. Therefore my wife also reading this book.

I wish I had read this book 10 years ago when my serious relationships only started. But better later, than never. After reading it, my relationships and understanding of women in general improved a lot.

One of the funny reviews I have read on the book - this is the only pick-up guide you need. That is a very true statement. Every man needs to read this book to be good with women.

For those women writing negative reviews of this book, you are harming yourself. Instead, you better give it to your man to read to improve your relationship.